To live...find and raise your voice!

"EQUAL ACCESS TO EDUCATION, TRAINING AND SCIENCE & TECHNOLOGY. PATHWAY TO DECENT WORK FOR WOMEN" - Theme for International Women's day 2011.

It's pathetic that even in these era of rapid advancements and modernisation...we women has to still struggle, remind or else beg for our 'right to live peacefully'. For long time we are the victims of inequality and gender discrimination. None of them have given definite reply for the question 'why its so?' Like a custom or as a curse...women's life and peace is still at the mercy of others.
In these time of celebrating 100 years of women's achievemen, if we notice around the world we can find something is changed and everythng remain unchanged.

All are saying men and women are equal,then why cant it be practical?
Who said that women are inferior to men?
Why cant she travel alone?
Why she is unsecured everywhere?
Why dowry becomes a villain in her life?
Why she alone always raise her voice for peace and security?
Just look into whats happening around in our country. Each day new stories and in most of them women are the victims! Lots of Indian brides are burned alive due to lack of dowry. Women as a wife have been cruely tourtured by families....many including women believe that women exclusively belongs to home. She is divorced on silly matters and for remarry grooms finds no difficulty, but for a bride its hard at certain times. Women are raped and killed even at home. No woman can travel or walk around alone....against these some are asking 'why should she travel alone in night?' Oh...let me ask what is wrong in it? Its the duty of mankind to provide her security at every walks of life and rarely some do it for her. I know blaming earns nothing and we have to do it. I wont say that woman are always right but its cruel when some argues that she deserves less from her life. There are many women in renowed fields.
The battle for women's right is not a phenomenon and many laws are also there!! Look into the recent Sowmya's tragedy,for many days many renowed personalities and obviously medias too celebrated it well with discussions and now nothing is heard. I appreciate all for their initiative and atleast it had made all of us to think for a while about a woman and her security in different phases of life but i wish a change in attitude rather than condolence. There is law bt nothing happened. If that 'bastard Govindachamy was given punishement immediately ,none will have the courage again to shatter the dream of a women. I cnt understand 'why our laws are not implemented effectively? Whats the restriction? Judiciary is also in changing phase. Most of problems of dowry, harassments, torturing etc against her can be brought to an end if 'law is effective. We women deserve more than your mercy and its our right.
Women want freedom to live and it does not meant to live as a man but as a women itself with respect,rights, peace and honour. We want security to live, behave, speak, travel etc etc. We want equality in every walks of life....
If the world goes like these, i guess a prophet has to come or a miracle from God that leads us to peace and also for a secured life!! We all want to see something happened to secure us than false promises !

A word to dear Women...if you want to live...find and raise your voice. If you think speaking may ruin ur peace,the fact is that silence will worsen it much more ,so speak out and do something. No one can save you...so be careful and dream for a day of peace and freedom for whole women community. Stay united and be powerful..

Stop worrying and be happy...

Be happy with what you have rather than being unhappy with what others have.. Its a fact we all know but we all forget and ignore it or else we dont know about it.
Its commonly said by most when they face any kind of problem "what a fate it is!" and starts crying and cursing.We all start worrying unnecessarily and gets tensed on silly matters. We never think we get nothing from such tensions and anxieties. A lots of time is lost on these and inturn nothing is benefitted.
Life is short and we cannot predict when we will surrender to death. Think for a while..what is it that we gain from tensions, anxieties, worries etc. Always keep in mind,its our life...we ourself have to determine how to live and what all to do? Blaming and cursing can be done by any, its not at all an intelligent task and its a mere atempt to escape and hide from mistakes.Likewise, its easy for being unhappy and tensed but its quite difficult to be happy and in peace. I dont know why when a problem arises we firstly try to make it a blast than to solve it easily. We never think of people who have more sufferings than us.Its easy to say then why cant we try for it.My dearest Mom used to say always,"observe and understand the people below you than those above,then you can realise how blessed you are!" I have also felt that her words are always true. Sitting within four walls we never know whats happening around us. Just open your eyes and look around...and say 'I'm blessed' We are all blessed with many virtues but our selfishness turns it to vices...if not how can a man brutely kill his parents,siblings and more than that killing ourselves on silly matters. Oh...! I just forgot..all these have brutal sweet names "PATRICIDE, MATRICIDE, FRATRICIDE & SUICIDE"
If we know the value of life and its blessings we cannot never ruin our peace. So always try to be happy and remember happiness cannot be bought or sold.The path to happiness is not far away..being happy does not mean to smile always but its a state of peace in mind in which you are comfortable with what you have in your hand.
Stop worrying and be happy! If not you are simply loosing your good times in life...so decide what to do... 'Be happy' or 'keep worrying'!